When you wait upon the Lord (Ps. 27:13-14)

Do you feel like you have messed up so badly that there appears to be no way out? God said David was a man after His own heart, yet David committed adultery and murder. So you need to know that no matter how deep a pit you are in, God is ready and willing to lift you out. When you find yourself in a hole, the first thing you need to do is look up. 

God has given us a fail-proof recipe for restoration. “If My people, who are called by My name, will humble themselves and pray and seek My face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land” (2 Chron. 7:14, NIV). Your part is to humble yourself, pray, and repent; then God will hear, forgive, and heal. David said, “I would have lost heart, unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait on the Lord; be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; wait, I say, on the Lord!” (Ps. 27:13–14). David did not lose heart, and you should not either. Wait on the Lord.

The apostle Paul tells us, “neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Rom. 8:39, NIV). Do not fear; there is nothing that can separate [insert your name here] from God’s love. I repeat: nothing can separate you from God’s love! 

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Do you remember back in the seventies a cartoon character named "Schleprock"? Every time you saw him he had a dark cloud and lightning over his head. The good news for those of us who believe in Christ is that it doesn't have to be that way. Palm 27, verses 13 and 14 admonishes us to "be of good cheer and wait on the Lord".  I will be the first to admit, it's hard to be of good cheer when you are dealing with severe pain or emotional distress, but God is always on time and He never fails us . . . His answer might not be exactly what we had in mind, but it is what's best for us.

Overcoming the 'perfect storm' (part 2)

Meditate on These Things

Paul’s final instruction in his prescription to anxiety is to meditate on the things of God. In other words, pick what you ponder. Picture your thoughts as airplanes in the sky above a busy airport. You are the air traffic controller of that airport. You get to decide which thoughts land and which ones fly away. Want to be happy tomorrow? Let the thoughts of happiness land today. Want to be miserable tomorrow? Let thoughts of guilt, worry, and fear land today.

Healing from anxiety requires healthy thinking. In truth, your challenge is not your challenge; your challenge is the way you think about your challenge. Likewise, your problem is not your problem; the way you look at the problem is your problem. Satan knows this, which is why he is always seeking to plant lies in your thinking. He wants to influence the way you perceive your struggles or uncertainties. But remember that he is not the master of your mind.

Furthermore, you have a power he can never defeat, for you have God on your side. When anxiety threatens to weigh down your heart, you can simply call on God. This slaps the handcuffs on the culprit and marches it before the One who has all authority. This denies worries and fears to have a platform to influence your mind. This guards your thoughts as you trust in God your Father.

Of course, saying this and doing this are two different things. You may want to resolve that today you will think only on things that are true, honorable, and right. . . even if it kills you. But who can really do this?

There is a simpler way: just make it your aim to cling to Christ. Abide in him. Go to him as your source of strength and the One your thoughts need to obey. Read God’s Word. Listen to sermons. Worship him. Set aside distractions and claim time for him. Understand that if anything good comes into your life, he will be the conduit.

The dominant duty of the disciple is to cling to Jesus. And when you cling to Jesus, you fill your mind with God’s truth. You disarm the enemy and keep anxiety at bay. You receive God’s truth. And that truth sets you free—free from fear, free from dread, and, yes, free from anxiety.

Having anxiety just means you are human. It does not mean you are emotionally underdeveloped, stupid, demon possessed, or a failure. It does not mean your parents failed you, or vice versa. And — this is important — it does not mean you are not a Christian. Yes, even Christians battle anxiety. Jesus himself battled anxiety in the Garden of Gethsemane. But he didn’t stay anxious. And neither should you.

A new day awaits you. A new season in which you will worry less and trust more. A season with reduced fear and enhanced faith. Can you imagine a life in which you are anxious for nothing?

God can. And, with His help, you will experience it.

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As I mentioned yesterday, over the past eight months, I have had the opportunity to experience a so-called 'perfect storm' and now I am coming out on the other side. You might wonder, if that is the case, why I posted a picture of a hospital room. Between October 12, 2017 and the week prior to Thanksgiving, I was hospitalized due to complications from my hydrocephalus that included a severe headache, vertigo, and vision problems. The love I was shown during those 21 days was absolutely phenomenal. Folks that had never met each other (and, in some cases, that I had never met) came together for one purpose . . . to let me know that I was loved and that I was going to make it. Did that do away with the anxiety that I felt? Not completely . . . but my "adopted" family can tell when it was troubling me and they would circle the wagons. Christ love in human form.

Overcoming the "perfect storm" (part 1)

The Peace of God Will Guard Your Heart

When mariners describe a tempest that no sailor can escape, they call it a “perfect storm.” Not perfect in the sense of ideal, but perfect in the sense of combining factors. All the elements, such as hurricane-force winds plus a cold front plus a downpour of rain, work together to create an insurmountable disaster. The winds alone would be a challenge—but the winds plus the cold plus the rain? The perfect recipe for disaster.

You don’t need to be a mariner to experience a perfect storm. In fact, you’ve undoubtedly already faced a few in your lifetime. A layoff plus recession. An illness plus a job change. A relationship breakup plus a college rejection. A sudden loss plus an unforeseen event that threatens your future. Individually, these elements might be manageable. But collectively, they are absolutely formidable. It’s enough to make you wonder, Will I even survive?

Paul’s answer to that question is as profound as it is concise. When you present your requests to God with thanksgiving, “the peace of God . . . will guard your heart” (Philippians 4:7 NIV). In other words, as you do your part and release the worry to God, he does his part by bestowing on you his perfect peace. You should be worried . . . but you’re not. You should be upset . . . but you are calm. The peace of God transcends all logic, scheming, and efforts to explain it.

When Paul was faced with a “perfect storm” at sea, he told the sailors, “Last night an angel of the God to whom I belong and whom I serve stood beside me and said, ‘Do not be afraid, Paul. . . . God has graciously given you the lives of all who sail with you'" (Acts 27:23–24 NIV). On the deck of a sinking ship, God sent angels to minister to Paul. He will do the same for you. Unlike the world, his resources are limitless and his peace is permanent.

Perhaps you’ve prayed and prayed and heard nothing. Don’t give up! Rest in the truth that just as God sent angels to protect those you read about in the Bible, he will send his angels to protect you—even as your storm continues to rage. When you gave your life to him, he took you into his family as a cherished child. He has purpose for your days, and he invites you to join in accomplishing his will in the world. He will use the storms to grow your faith and trust in him.

When you seek the Lord, you will find him. So seek him first. Lead with worship and thanksgiving. Go first to your Father in prayer and praise. Confess to him your fears. Gather with his people. Set your face toward God. Cry out for help. Admit your weakness. Then, once God moves, take a step and move with him.

Expect to see the God of ages fight for you. He is near, as near as your next breath. You may be facing the perfect storm, but Jesus offers the perfect peace.

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I am a firm believer that nothing in our life "just happens" or is mere happenstance . . . God doesn't work that way. My devotional this morning (copied above) is a prime example because I have just weathered one of those perfect storms. It started one year ago next month (May, 2017) when my beloved wife MaryLou began showing early indications of dementia. For my readers who might not be familiar with it, dementia (Alzheimer's Association, 2018) is a general term used to describe a condition that results in the decline of a person's mental abilities to the point it interferes with their day-to-day activities. Despite the fact her diagnosis was intermediate dementia, I was determined to care for her at home as long as I possibly could. From late May until early August, I did just that despite the fact that it was taking a toll on my health.

Toward the end of August, I had to call EMS after her blood glucose skyrocketed and she blacked out. They kept her overnight in the ER. Early the next morning, her doctor came in and said: 1) He was going to admit her so that I could get some rest; and 2) He was going to start the process to get her in a skilled nursing facility. It was then I realized the toll it had taken on me . . .

BIBLIOGRAPHY

Alzheimer's Association (2018). What is dementia. Retrieved on April 22, 2018 from https://m.alz.org/what-is-dementia.asp

Be anxious for nothing . . .

Let Your Gentleness Be Evident to All

Unchecked anxiety can unleash an Enola Gay of angry outbursts, rash accusations, and fiery retaliations against those in your path who are unfortunate to be at the wrong place at the wrong time. How many people have been wounded as a result of such unbridled stress? On the other hand, how many disasters have been averted because one person decided to be calm?

It is this composure Paul is referring to when he states, “Let your gentleness be evident to all” (Philippians 4:5 NIV). The Greek word translated as gentleness describes a temperament that is seasoned and mature. It envisions an attitude that is fitting to the occasion, levelheaded and tempered. The gentle reaction is one of steadiness, evenhandedness, and fairness.

Jesus promised that “in this world you will have trouble” (John 13:33 NIV). It is as inevitable as the sun rising on a new day—as waves crashing on the shores of a beach. But what you also need to remember is that Jesus has promised to be with you in the midst of those troubles. Before Jesus departed this earth, he said to his disciples, “Go and make disciples of all nations . . . teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age” (Matthew 28:19–20 NIV).

In fact, throughout the Bible, God repeatedly pledged to be present with his people. He was with Abram as he traveled to a new land. He was with Hagar when she fled into the wilderness, and with Isaac when he was forced to move from place to place. He was with Joshua when he faced the Canaanites, and with David when he faced the Philistines. He was with Peter in prison, and with Paul whenever and wherever he found himself in dire circumstances.

God was never watching from a distance. In fact, his very name is Immanuel, which means “God with us.” He became flesh. He became sin. He defeated the grave. And he is still with you.

Maybe you’re fighting today to keep a family together, a business afloat, or a school from going under. How you handle that fight will reveal where your trust ultimately lies. If you trust in Jesus and believe he is always with you, the byproduct of releasing the control to him will be a contagious calm that surrounds your life. This calm will allow you to see how God is working in your situation—and others will notice there is something different about you. It will bring healing to your anxiety, mature your faith, and show others that God is always faithful.

Anxiety management is like pulling stumps out of the ground. Some of your worries have deep root systems, and extracting them is hard work. But you don’t have to do it alone. Present the challenge to your Father and ask for help.

Will he solve the issue? Yes, he will. Will he solve it immediately? Maybe. Or maybe part of the test is an advanced course in patience. This much is sure: contagious calm will happen to the degree that you turn to him.

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Occasional anxiety happens to all of us. It is when it affects us to the point that we could complete day-to-day tasks that it becomes problematic. (National Institute, N.D.) But, with the help of our Heavenly Father, we can overcome this "game changer" You might be thinking "But, Walter, how can that be?" Before returning to the right hand of His father, Jesus promised "I will be with you always, to the very end of the age" (Matthew 28:19-20 [NIV]). With that promise - and the fact that He is omnipresent - we can know for a certainty that He will not forsake us or abandon us. I deal with anxiety day in and day out so I can assure you that turning to God works as well - if not better - than any medication the doctor could prescribe and with no problematic side effects. Here's what I do:

1. If I feel an anxiety attack coming on, I stop what I am doing and pray. It's usually not anything flashy or wordy . . . just "Lord, I am beginning to feel overwhelmed. Please take it away and replace it with your joy. Amen."

2. After finishing my prayer, I pull up YouTube and put on some contemporary Christian hymns (such as Mercy Me) or some old school southern gospel and I am as good as new.

BIBLIOGRAPHY

National Institute of Mental Health [NIMH] (N.D.). Anxiety Disorder. Retrieved on April 21, 2018 from https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/anxiety-disorders/index.shtml

I am surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses

Every since I first sang this hymn some years back, I knew it was true in my life but, perhaps, never so much so than a week ago yesterday (Sunday) when I was literally surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses. Let me explain. For the past sixteen (16) years, I have volunteered at a week-long summer camp for child and adolescent burn survivors.  On Sunday morning, prior to the arrival of campers, we have a non-denominational church service with a message and prayers for a good, injury free week. Well, a week ago yesterday, the group asked me if I would mind if the group lay hands on me and pray over me. I told them I would REALLY appreciate that since I was still recovering from my pacemaker implant back in March. Little did I realize how much it would help! Even before the prayer had ended, I felt renewed strength and decreased pain. Thank you camp family!

Finding the faith to press on

Press On (Selah)

Beginning last December (2013), I was troubled by Atrial Fibrillation, a condition where the atrium (top right chamber of the heart) doesn't beat effectively, instead it quivers. Rather that worrying about it, I came home from the doctor and got on Facebook and ask my family and friends to get a prayer chain going -- that I had a long, hard road ahead of me. Also, being a Latter-Day Saint, I knew I must try, as I have been taught, to endure to the end. Does that mean I prepared to die? Not at all, instead I "dug in" and prepared to battle the problem with Heavenly Father's help. I won't lie . . . it was the roughest three months of my life. The funny thing was that I was willing to accept it as the "thorn in my side" because friends were being strengthened - and acting on their own health problems - seeing how I was dealing with mine. That wasn't Heavenly Father's plan for me as he guided my Cardiologist to send me to an Electrophysiologist who performed surgery and implanted a pacemaker (pictured above right). Now, some two months and two weeks after the surgery, I am back in good health. All because I endured and pressed on!

In times of need

A man filled with the love of God, is not content with blessing his family alone, but ranges through the whole world, anxious to bless the whole human race. This has been your [the Twelve in England] feeling, and caused you to forego the pleasures of home, that you might be a blessing to others, who are candidates for [eternal life], but strangers to truth; and for so doing, I pray that heaven's choicest blessings may rest upon you. (See: History of the Church, 4:227)

As a whole, members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints are unique in our acts of unselfish service to others. Explains Elder Dallin H. Oaks: "Each year tens of thousands of Latter-Day Saints submit their papers for full-time missionary service," (Oaks, 2009). But it is not just that, often members of the LDS church are among the first on the ground following a hurricane or other major disaster. Why do we do it? The answer can be found in Matthew 16:24-25: "Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.; For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will find it," (Matthew 16:24-25 (NIV), 2013). You see, in serving others, we are also serving our Savior. 

 

Reference

Matthew 16:24-25 (new international version). (2013, August 27). Retrieved from http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew 16:24-25&version=NIV Retrieved: August 27, 2013

Oaks, D. (2009, April 01). Unselfish service . Retrieved from http://www.lds.org/general-conference/2009/04/unselfish-service?lang=en Retrieved: August 27, 2013